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The #1 Reason Prospects Say “Maybe” — And How to Turn That Into “Yes” 

 March 11, 2025

By  Tom Jackobs

What if I told you there’s a pattern—a predictable, repeatable pattern—that happens every single time someone says “yes”? No, this isn’t some weird, dark psychology mumbo jumbo. It’s pure, beautiful neuroscience. And here’s the kicker: the best way to get someone to say “yes” isn’t by drowning them in stats, waving a glossy brochure, or trying Jedi mind tricks (though, I admit, that would be cool).

It’s by telling a story. A well-crafted, irresistible story that guides them right to their dream—and to buying your program.

Why Your Pitch Falls Flat

Let me paint a picture. You’re passionately explaining your program to a prospect, but their eyes glaze over like a day-old donut. Or worse—they hit you with the dreaded “Hmm, interesting…” and you just know they won’t be calling back.

Here’s why that happens—and how to fix it.

  • Your Pitch Is a Snooze-Fest
    Humans aren’t wired to remember data dumps or slick sales jargon. We remember stories. Stories engage our brains in ways facts and figures never will.
  • You’re Not Building Emotional Bridges
    If your prospect isn’t emotionally invested, they won’t care enough to say “yes.” Connection isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.
  • Logic Overload
    Here’s a universal truth: People decide with emotion and justify with logic. If you lead with cold, hard facts, you’re bypassing the part of the brain that actually makes decisions.

The Neuroscientific Magic of Storytelling

When you tell a story, you’re not just sharing words—you’re creating a chemical reaction. Storytelling releases oxytocin, the “trust hormone,” lighting up areas of the brain responsible for memory, empathy, and connection. In short: stories make people feel. And when people feel, they trust. And when they trust, they say “yes.”

How to Craft Stories That Stick

Ready to become a master storyteller? Here’s how to create narratives that captivate and convert:

  • Start with a Hook
    Grab attention fast with something relatable yet unexpected. Make them curious, make them lean in.
  • Make Your Prospect the Hero
    Your prospect isn’t looking for another pitch—they’re looking for a guide. Show them how their struggles can be overcome and how you can help them win.
  • Share the Transformation
    Don’t just talk about features. Show outcomes. How will their life improve because of their decision to work with you?

When you structure your story like this, your audience won’t just hear your words—they’ll feel them. And when they feel them, they’ll trust you. And when they trust you, you’ll hear more “yeses” than ever before.

Ready to Take Storytelling to the Next Level?

This is just the beginning of using storytelling to grow your business. Want to dive deeper into the science and strategy of stories that sell? Want your prospects leaning in, eager to say “yes” instead of “Let me think about it”?

I’ve got something just for you. Click the link below to access my free guide on crafting your personal story—the ultimate tool to connect, inspire, and close more sales.

👉 https://tomjackobs.com/storybook

Your story has power. Let’s unleash it.

Tom Jackobs


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